A Good Story - Love

I once had a friend who grew to be very close to
me.

Once when we were sitting at the edge of a
swimming pool,
she filled the palm of her hand with some water &
held it before me,

& said this:

"You see this water carefully contained on my
hand? It symbolizes LoVe."

This was how I saw it:
As long as you keep your hand caringly open &
allow it to remain there, it will always be there.

However, if you attempt to close your fingers round
it & try to posses it, it will spill through the
first cracks it finds.

This is the greatest mistake that people do when
they meet LoVe...

they try to posses it,
they demand,
they expect...
just like the water spilling out of your hand,
LoVe will retrieve from you .

For LoVe is meant to be free, you cannot change
its nature.

If there are people you LoVe,
allow them to be free beings.

Give & don't expect.

Advise, but don't order.

Ask, but never demand.

It might sound simple,
but it is a lesson that may take a lifetime to truly
practice.

It is the secret to true LoVe.

To truly practice it,
you must sincerely feel no expectations from those
who you LoVe & yet an unconditional caring.

Passing thought...
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we
take...
but by the moments that take our breath away...

Having a fun Christmas eve

Its been long since the last party out with Justin and the gang.
The night at Ritz Carlton is definitely one of the best party this year.

I'm very happy when Benjamin decided to join us as he is one of my trusted friend since poly days.
Although he have drank alot at Double O before joining us, he still quite sober and could still take care of those who is half-drunk. Funny, right?

The charade game is funny and the forfeit has make most of them drunk.
But its very enjoyable and fun to watch those that are drunk doing those funny thing like banging the window, mistaken the room for toilet and etc....
Hahahaha, Going to laugh at them when I see them next time.

Should have more event like this next time.

Mark of the Wolf

Is it worth it?

Seem to be very long from last post.
Time to write something.
Basically nothing big or dramatic happen to me till now.
Life seem peaceful and I start to go back to my if as lone wolf.

While I am picking up myself back, YK, one of good pals in Poly, is following my footstep of before.
Guess he very lost now.
Came across his Ex's blog last few week.
Feel sad for him as I understand more of what happen in their relationship.
The outcome is a predictable ending. I would like to advise him to give up now as I don't want to see him walking the path I took before. Lesson had been taught and I wished to share with him what I've learned.
But I will still give him full support if he insist to persue the love he want.

I find Love is the greatest thing in this world and one should not easily give up.
Whether is it worth it anot, is up to him to decide. I can only share my experience to him.
Hope he will find his answer soon.

Looking at him now, I see all the foolish things I've done last time.
Now as a bystander, I have a clearer sight and I know what my next step to be.
I will be a better man

Mark of the Wolf
Calvin